Call me a damsel in over-dramatic, Millennial distress. Yet, I look around at my gaggles of gals as we call one another and cannot help but wonder…what do the older men we date find attractive in us? I cannot speak for everyone, but I absolutely adore a man who is more intelligent than me and can lead me into some perspective. Don’t worry, we aren’t fighting over the same pack of silver foxes – there are plenty of daddys – to go around. I have a collective group of friends, most of whom are also attracted to older men. Okay, don’t get me wrong – I’m a catch – as are many of my peers who fall in my same age group. Career, goals, and physical appearance set aside: Why is a man about a decade older than me more than willing to wine and dine my peers and me? Is there something wrong with the older generation of the gay community?
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What I do find interesting, is I’m almost never denied a date. Of course, nothing much more than a fling has occurred between an older man and I during my mature dating life, but I’m still holding out for a hero. I find older gentlemen, first of all, incredibly attractive and there is a spark about their wisdom I find magnetic. Yes, I’m a middle-aged, almost retired twink who has some daddy issues.
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Moreover, I’ve noticed I actually do have a type: Older.
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However, crazy or not, I’m a firm believer in dating often and damnit do I! Before you drop your jaw, no one stated dating means sleeping with someone…trust me, there’s cobwebs in my Netherlands, so you won’t see me showcasing on Instagram. I’m not certain how it happened – perhaps I’m just clinically insane. DADDY! Alright, so like many of us – I’m pathetically single.